India is a worlds largest democratic country , but still the castesim is not over. Not only the cast making difference between people but other big issue which is coming in the society . Now a days India is divided into two categories one is upper class and another is lower class . The middle class people are only have to suffer .
Low class people are having the mindity different from upper class people . And the difference arise because of their thinking and the surrounding where are they living . The lower class people are thinking more about the other people . They are always thinking about the society .
Society which we have made . The society which is created so that people can live but this society is killing many dreams and thinking of some new generation . New generation wanted to go ahead to overcome this difference between upper class and Lower class but still we all have to think about our society .
This society is killing Children
not only them but to their thoughts their ability which can overcome the difference they are killing everything and that’s only our society is doing .
Most of all are interested in doing love marriage. Love marriage is now in trend because the generation wants to choose their life partners by their own and wanted that their parents and society also except this . But the society not giving them the permission to live in this society .
That’s very easy to say that yes i am not having any problem whatever my child do but is they are mark able on their own words . Now also after so many years still the people are following the old thinking .
As i am saying about old thinking that never means to wear Saree or not allowed their girl child to go school they are old thinking in the thinking which is still in our India is that marriage should be in our cast only in our background in our society . Parents are saying that i love my child i care about them i make fulfill every wish of my child but when it comes to their marriage they forget they are wishing something to them they forget the child is of their own they forget for this child they can do anything now they are not listening to that child not understanding what their child wants to say .
Only in lower class families only this problem is occurring but in high society or to rich people that are not having any problem . The parents are not asking their child that what their society is what is the background nothing . The difference comes here in India where two types of people are living and forming India but in different manners.
Actually they are creating India in one manner but inside they are creating two India.
They are creating a rich India and poor India . Rich India is having high society having many rights to they can do anything but low society poor people don’t have the right take his own decision they always have to suffer from the society problems .
Their parents are saying that we have to think about our society . Sometimes children sacrifice of their love but sometimes they go against their parents and but still they are not able to live in the society . The India have not to go high in economically but by the thinking also it have to change this difference of thinking between the people living in this world .
Heart broken poets and other lovers are coming in this world saying their own words but they all wanted to say one thing only and that is they have to face lots of problems because of society . This society this make us feel good sometimes it makes us feel independent but other time it shows us that their are still boundaries from where we can’t go ahead and if we are moving we have to face lots of problem .
If the love marriage is allowed ?
the parents or by the society but still they wanted that their child should not go ahead from the boundaries of the society . The lover always says don’t do love it hurts . Actually they have to say that my love is not successful because of one thing and that is the thinking . The thing which comes between the lovers is only the society .
I don’t think that we need any examples for that we all are knowing about Heer and Ranjha what was happened to them the same thing the society do not except them . The society still haven’t changed after so many years after so many of time .
Still society is killing love and life of people . If a girl or boy is doing marriage with the girl or boy what their parents bring for them and after they are having problem than the parents are not having any problem because society is not saying anything to them . Even that they are feeling proud that my child do marriage of my wish .
But what the reality is are they happy , the child is believing that their parents will never do anything bad for them but why the parents are not believing on their own child that if they are taking some decision can also be correct and they will be happy with each other .
Every time we teach our children that we have to be in our limits we should not break rules only child is learning by their parents that what their parents are feeling but why not the parents are not understanding what their child is feeling .
Rich society is not having problem of what their child is doing and what they are doing in their life . If a rich people is doing any work that’s trend or fashion or if the poor people is doing any thing that is breaking of rules . So what is going on .
Where we are moving . We have to think that is really India is going ahead or only its showing other countries that i am moving ahead but the thinking of people is still not growing up .
They still ready to kill more heer and ranjha . We have to move ahead but not only in money but also in our thinking . And we have to decrease society difference in India.